A Gemini man can find it hard to commit.
They usually have short-terms relationships or occasional sex which means that if you are dating a male Gemini for a while, he is really into you.
In a steady relationship a Male Gemini needs a woman that has the same intellectual interests such literature, poetry, philosophy, music or the media. They need to be able to have fun with their partner, share ideas and adventurous together and have the same thirst for life. They get tired when their partner becomes emotionally dependent on them and they hate nagging. A love affair could be described as an ongoing creative process for them. They see life through the artist’s eyes and they need to know there is something dreamy between the two of you.
If a Gemini had enough of you, be certain that he will let you know in one or more of the following ways:
1. He can’t be bothered with your emotional demands
If you sense that your Gemini partner is distant, you may react to his rejection by demanding more emotional attention. This is a major turn-off for a male Gemini. They want to feel free to offer their affection whenever they feel like it and not when it is demanded of them. Actually such demands make them more indifferent as they feel suffocated and they run away. They will hate a partner that constantly complains as for them the main reason that they two of you are together is to have fun. When it’s no fun between the two of you, they will try and find it elsewhere guilt free.
2. He will complain about your intellect
If a Gemini is starting to lose interest in you, you will suddenly not be good enough for him in one way or another. The most common complaint will be the difference in your philosophical or intellectual values. He might start noticing how much you read or how superficial your views are on various matters. He will criticize your way of thinking and finally tell you that you are not good enough for him. Finish it off before you start feeling intellectually violated.
3. There is no spark
Geminis need to be in a fun, playful and adventurous relationship. They need to know that this almost child-like spark between you is growing and flourishing. The kind of partner a male Gemini would chose to spend his time with is someone that will love extreme sports or enjoy being in the front row of a huge concert, or party with them all night long. If he has stopped proposing such activities then it is a definite sign that he is losing interest in you.
4. And finally he may cheat on you
Male Geminis do not usually connect sex and emotional attachment. For them cheating is not so important but it is definitely a way to finish off a relationship. It is important for them to separate your sexual energy in order to be able to move on in life and they can easily accomplish that by sleeping with someone else. This way the feel they can be free and liberated from the spiritual presence of their previous partner. For them cheating is not a big deal or a form of betrayal, so try not to think possessively when this happens. It is just their way of moving on.
No matter what is the reason your Gemini man has lost interest in you, he will definitely give you one or more of the previous signs that this relationship has stopped working. Try not to see it as a rejection as this man might have been too much of a free spirit for you also.